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2/23/2021

Only the Inner Beauty

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I am being reminded of a movie that really stuck for me, Shallow Hall. Perhaps, like Tony Robbins (in the movie), he could make it possible for us all to reimagine each other through hypnotizing us, "to recognize only the inner beauty" vs. outside appearance. 

As our society, our business, our own personal self-evaluations flirt (heck sometimes skips to marriage, 😊) with “less about one’s character, and more about one’s looks (ID)”, I offer just some potential markers on the path, to pause and reflect upon.  
*Measurements of excellence               *Right people, right seats
*Positioned for success                           *Mathematics… pure and simple.                   
*Performance expectations                    *Available, qualified talent 
*Onboarding                                              *Firing
*Benchmark bars                                      *Communication strategies
*Internal teamwork                                   *Cultural dynamics
*Alignment of values, story, brand          And more…

 I share that personally; I was subject to the “suggestion” of taking the family company to a “Women-Owned” status.  I could see the bit of hurt in my father’s eyes, but the customers assured us that it meant so much more potential revenue as our company would help fulfill diversity requirements related to their purchases. Dad let ego go, took one for the team.  To be honest, I hated (and I never use that word) any resemblance of the idea someone was not choosing to do business, be in partnership with or see us as the best option for their needs as the top priority in making such a decision. Often being assured it was just a bonus reason, not criteria. But in the shadows, hiding was that why question.  For myself, slightly dramatic, I didn’t like the feeling I or our business may be judged by what vs who.  In the end, the “promise” of increased revenue was unfulfilled.

With some relevance, a LinkedIn connection, reminded me of an effective tool in battling addiction, “you must think beyond the moment, (or first drink), down the road (to the last drink).” Like a game of chess or the popular book The Art of War.  Considering the consequences, not the feel good or trending emotions, of a on the surface decision as it plays out. Are we truly recognizing actions and or fully informed to plan for the future of ALL involved?  

Fortunately, I have experienced myself both the Shallow Hal lesson and the addiction tool, becoming a believer early on to see past appearances and consider what is further down the path, in combination. Wondering now, maybe a pause and reflect is self-sabotaging? Learning through doing is more impactful.  My words vulnerable to misinterpretations. Eventually regardless of how well-intended current views or decisions are, if not solidly connected with character, creates an abundance of future coaching opportunities? Hmmm?
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Kind and sincere wishes, whatever it is, the best choices are made for the best reasons. (No costly divorces!)

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