“…See Me Standing Toe to Toe…”*

​Happy International Women’s Day to all.  Sincere and heartfelt thoughts to each and every woman for the gift you already are and are able to choose to become.  Thank you to all the men that are supportive and caring.

For me it begs the question though, aren’t the other 364 days an observance of women too? (And when is Men’s day? Just curious.) In no way am I minimizing the importance of this celebration, recognition, stories, and more that are being promoted and shared. I cheer for them as truly outstanding!  (As a girl, I too belted out “I Am Woman” with Helen Reddy)

I am suggesting an additional narrative though.  Women are always deserving and worthy.  I sometimes feel that women critically underappreciate themselves and the power they have always, and will forever hold.  From a pure factual standpoint–without the role a woman owns, there is no human race.  It does not get more powerful than that (I am not ignoring the man’s involvement and my faith must give due credit to the spirit of my God too).  We should never underestimate that a woman in one way or another, deeply and greatly effects every individual’s life, as a mother, grandmother, wife, partner, employee, executive, entrepreneur, boss, caregiver and or friend. A woman stands in the background, and the foreground, constantly. You cannot avoid having a woman touch your life.  Embrace this truth and the depth of its meaning.  
​So, this is where I get confused.

Why the desire to compare or divide the sexes when we do not have to? They are not comparable and exist only because of the other. I am not naively saying that life doesn’t hand women obstacles to overcome and we label them often around arguments over “being equals”.  Reality, there is no equal. Equality is a perception and an evolving, unattainable goal. There is mutual respect. Where equality may exist is agreeing we are ALL a one of a kind, unique individual. Ideally, measuring our being from the inside, not out. Are we fulfilling our distinct potential? Are we living our best in every moment?  Do we simply and completely accept ourselves as we are right now? And from the outside, may we be valued for our character, experiences, contributions and empathy.  Assessed by our talents, abilities, knowledge and kindness.  Obviously, so many opportunities exist to offer each other, deserving, mutual respect.
 
May I propose reimagining this day?  
Are we celebrating being special?  We need what differentiates one another, and that is the point.
Are we acknowledging redefining limits and where they come from? We are never without the option to choose. 
Are we respecting achievements? We can find success wherever we seek to embrace it.

Happy International “I am being the one and only me, to the best of my capabilities, breaking all boundaries day”.
If open to the possibilities.

*Lyrics of Helen Reddy’s, “I am Woman”. Written by DAVID DUNDAS,EDDIE HOWELL

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